Irrespective, read my post once again, together with the other links we posted, and let me know what precisely about it is misogynistic. (FTR, it will get without stating that critique of females, in and of itself, just isn’t similar to misogyny).
Into staying in the relationship, my actual happiness be damned– while expecting all the value that was traditionally expected of men– plus more– from me) as I said above: I’ve had plenty of nice dates over the last 20 years with a wide range of otherwise normal women who are decent human beings, and then from all walks of life– bartenders and factory line workers, all the way up to women with masters degrees and doctors (who, FTR, made way more money than I do, and it was never a concern in my eyes), and all of varying physical proportions/attractiveness– short, tall, some slightly overweight, some rail-thin, some flat chested with no is uberhorny legit? hips, some super curvy, some with model-quality facial features, some not so much, etc. )… however, they all wound up being bad relationship material for the reasons I listed above (usually the housepet or overgrown child categories– they expected their default existence in my life or half-assed efforts that I had to “command”/ask/request/beg of them to be all that’s required– basically they only wanted to do enough to placate me.
Clearly i need to never be all that “misogynistic” if I’ve put sufficient effort into my previous relationships with me, marry me, have kids with me, and they even did the large majority of initiating sexually (regardless of whether I rejected them or not), etc that they progressed to the point on more than one occasion they wanted to spend their life. Unfortuitously, like the majority of other “modern” women, these people were either incapable because of incompetence, or simply just declined to exhibit shared respect through real proactive work, therefore I broke off my dedication to them (every so often after many years of persistence as a husband, and gain all of what that entails (provision of all facets of security– emotional, physical, and financial; please them as a lover; make them feel special and appreciated, etc. ), but they didn’t want to have to work even to a minimal extent at being a wife, returning those same sentiments in a feminine way as a matter of mutual respect in return (at times even fighting tooth-and-nail to justify why they shouldn’t have to) with them)… in short, they wanted me to give them kids, and to acquire me.
Just How precisely will it be misogyny you may anticipate more work than compared to platonic friendship (or even for that matter, just her neutral standard existence) from a lady when that girl seems compelled to share with a person she really really loves him?
Having said that, it is frequently stated that the meaning of insanity would be to keep doing the thing that is same and over while anticipating different outcomes… if pursuing ladies we appear to go along okay with only ever leads to unfulfilling, one-sided relationships EVEN ONCE THEY EXPRESS WHICH THEY ADORE ME AND WISH TO DEVELOP A HOUSEHOLD BESIDE ME, we ask once more, what’s the purpose of pursuing ladies?
Now give consideration to that the common women behind those doorways probably will at the best provide only her standard presence in their life if he opens sufficient doors discover to find her, that will include more difficulty to their life without incorporating any compensating advantage, and can end in a net-loss overall… what’s the point of fighting dozens of tigers for the net-loss in well being?
Finally, think about this: If there are plenty great males out there who aren’t as with any us so named “red tablet misogynists”, exactly why are there a lot of articles where ladies are railing about how precisely they can’t find any worthwhile guys, and all the complaints about males being interested in porn and video gaming than genuine women? Perhaps issue you ought to be asking is the reason why are porn and games that are video WOMEN for grown-men’s attention?
Could it perhaps, simply perhaps, be because ladies stopped supplying value that is traditional relationship partners for males while really anticipating significantly more than conventional value from guys? Just having a well balanced work that could offer and keep maintaining the “structural” integrity of the modest house whilst having decent personal character was once enough… now males are required to additionally undertake an important part of keeping the environmental surroundings in the house that has been usually included in ladies, while additionally being anticipated to supplying endless excitement to “keep her interested” emotionally, be the total selection of principal to intimate enthusiast that understands every small nuance of feminine sex, and constantly be incorporating increasingly more and much more to their life to boost exactly what he provides a female in social status–basically unchecked Briffault’s law– to the level 90%+ regarding the males available to you will inevitably break.